[kj] Partisan management of egos

[FLIGHT BRINGER]

You are a wanker!..............Said George Bush to Saddam Hussein.
  I wont enter into debate cuz  dat  jus aint da uhmerican way. 
..............said George.


>From: LONESTYLE at aol.com
>Reply-To: "A list about all things Killing Joke (the 
>band!)"<gathering at misera.net>
>To: gathering at misera.net
>Subject: Re: [kj] Partisan management of egos
>Date: Fri, 31 Mar 2006 16:53:56 EST
>
>
>Peter.
>
>
>You are a wanker!
>
>~LB
>
>In a message dated 3/31/2006 1:34:41 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,
>flightbringer at hotmail.co.uk writes:
>
>That is  fair enough Bluce, Jester was and still is your mate and its only
>natural  that you should have some affinity for him. On a personal level he
>was a  nice person in your opinion, but would you say that he was a good
>webmaster? Being a webmaster involves dealing with a lot of various
>different people from different back grounds who all have different  
>opinions
>and to be a good Webmaster you must accommodate all these  different 
>people.
>You must realize that everyone has different opinions  and you must respect
>these, you cannot go imposing your will and ego on  others.
>When your Webpage becomes an extension of your ego is the time when  you 
>stop
>being a competent webmaster. You only have to look at all the  people who 
>got
>banned from his site to realize the limit of his man  management skills. 
>The
>mistake Jester made was that if he disagreed with  someone he would try to
>humiliate them, abuse them, belittle them threaten  them and if they still
>did nt comply with his wishes then he would ban  them. He would even lie
>about people and change the facts in order to come  across as being devine
>and correct.
>I see many parallels with  the way he ran his board and the way the
>American military carry on around  the World. Bullying people , threatening
>them and them wipe them out if  they don't comply.
>This Gathering lists proves that its possible to  function without
>permanently banning people. Instead of taking a  confrontational stance
>against dissidents and thus  escalating the  conflict all it takes is a
>little personal E-mail saying "You ve over  stepped the mark and stop being 
>a
>prick" ,then most reasonable people will  respect the Webmasters wishes and
>cease . To be a Webmaster you need to  have diplomacy and respect and not
>treat people like they are  worthless.
>If you treat people with respect , then they respond in a  respectful way,
>if you treat people in an abusive way then they will  respond acordingly.
>You only have to look at the way Jester is  abusing his power with the KJ
>board now, putting a Motley crue link in KJs  place. He is devalueing KJs
>name and making a mockery of the band. That  shows what a vindictive person
>he is and the levels he is prepared to go  to.
>Can you se the paralels between Jesters behaviour and George  Bushs
>behavior? they both conduct their busines in the same  way.
>
>
>
>


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