[kj] [SPAM] Re: [SPAM] i think im gonna give up my chance to see kj in la:[

[The Exorcist]

Would it be more succinct to say
"Pardon me, would you be so kind as to go fuck youself"

Just Wondering,
Me

At 08:47 PM 5/10/2008, Bette Dillinger wrote:

>How do you survive your "shyness" in everyday life?  You have to 

>have some adaptative method.  Look at your strengths and go with 

>it.  If you have a daughter and can have relationships, well, that 

>shows you are not a complete misanthrope.  What is the problem with 

>saying to someone that approaches you "Sorry, I am reuniting with so 

>many people that it is hard to place a name with a face?" or the 

>more succinct "I am overwhelmed, back at ya in a bit".

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>  I think the "Go F#$k Yourself" attitude could get a beer bottle 

> over your head.  Just planting seeds.

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>-Bette

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>From: jo at arcadia.karoo.co.uk

>To: gathering at misera.net

>Date: Sun, 11 May 2008 01:22:03 +0100

>Subject: Re: [kj] [SPAM] Re: [SPAM] i think im gonna give up my 

>chance to see kj in la:[

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>'Shy' is a subjective term and doesn't equate to not liking to talk 

>to people.  Not in my context anyway.

>Read my explanation again.

>It was about ice-breaking, rusting social skills and the possible 

>rudeness of not recognising someone rather than not enjoying a good old gas.

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>Out of interest....would you ever speak to someone like that - what you said?

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>    But if you are shy and you don't like talking to people, why 

> don't you just say to people  "Fuck off I'm shy , I don't want to 

> talk  , I ve come to see Killing Joke and I am quite honestly  not 

> bothered about how you are keeping , so do one  , piss off and go 

> and talk to someone else and let me enjoy me beer"?

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>From: jo at arcadia.karoo.co.uk

>To: gathering at misera.net

>Date: Sun, 11 May 2008 00:45:48 +0100

>Subject: Re: [kj] [SPAM] i think im gonna give up my chance to see kj in la:[

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>You make going to a musical airing sound like such a robotic 

>thing.  'Walk in, watch band, leave - ignore all distractions :-)))

>Of course it's a social event and you're going to bump into people 

>that you haven't seen for ages and for the shyist amongst us, it's a 

>little daunting - particularly if you're anything like me, as blind 

>as a bat and can never remember names and faces unless they've been 

>drilled into my head which can be quite embarrassing.  This is 

>worsened - everybody else seems to be more adept at recognising me.

>Fuck I'd blame it on the beer but I walk past my own daughter in the 

>street in broad daylight.  She pisses herself laughing.

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>"I go through bouts of being undersocialised and it can make social 

>situations daunting. "

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>   Why do you find it daunting ?

>You go to gigs to see a band and you don't go there to talk to people .

>I don't particularly like talking to people at the best of times .

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Regardless of your inferior opinions, I'll always be willing to sit down
and allow any of you to buy me a drink in order for me to elucidate you on
the errors of your ways. Life is too short. Your life, I mean, if you
don't change those opinions. Oh, it's your round. Yeah, bag of crisps
would be great. Salt and vinegar. I'll be on the bog...hey do you have any
stamps? I have to post something.
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